Tuesday, February 2, 2010

What Makes A Man?

The ability to do for his woman in and out of the bedroom. A man is someone that does what's needed to be done. A man is someone that treats his woman with respect & courtesy every time they're together. A man is someone that not only respects his woman but every woman he encounters. A man is about his money, his education, and most of all his family. So why is that women continue to surround themselves with the exact opposite of these men, that is said that all these sistaz want? "Little boys"; these are the so-called men who talk about it, but in all actuality aren't about it...Little boys are the dudes that you always see in the street that are trying to holler at these beautiful real women out of car windows that won't give them the time of day. Little boys are those dudes that would rather go for the quick buck, that's fast and easy as suppose to putting up the effort and energy into the real money that would make your average nickle & dime corner hustler look like a cab driver. A little boy is the kind of guy that would rather spend his last twenty dollars on a night at the club instead of use it to put food in his fridge for the next couple of days. A little boy is one of those dudes that all though he may already have one of the few down to earth real women that are still out there. Still continues to chase after those fast, easy to get them panties kind of girls. Causing these few real women that are left to become bitter and never want to open up to another man again, afraid of the chance that the next guy will hurt them just as bad as the one before them had. Then you have those middle men, the young men that are trying to cross the border of boyhood into manhood before it's too late. The guys that have chased their share of the easy fuck kind of girls, the ones that have wifey already and are trying their hardest to stay true to her, satisfy her every need & wish and treat her like the queen she is, and the guys who wants wifey, a real woman but can't have her because she's either cold & bitter and wants part of no man, or is stuck on the little-ass-boy's weak "G" so much to see that she can do & deserves better than what she has. These middle men are the ones that are overlooked. These are the men that are trying their hardest to become real men and are putting the effort into it, but have still yet to reach it yet. What more can I say except some people mature faster than others, and others just never fully and completely do at all. Only time will tell, as far as now nice guys finish last.

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